Tessa ReneeWhen a girl says “we’re just talking,” you think it means casual. Undefined. Still up in the air. But here’s the twist, boys: if she’s talking to you, she’s already made her decision about you. “Just talking” isn’t limbo, it’s the trial period where she’s confirming what she already knows in her gut.
Here’s how it works: By the time she entertains conversation, she’s clocked your vibe, noted your potential, and mentally placed you in one of two categories: worth her time or time filler. The talking stage is her observation deck, not her guessing game. She’s listening to your tone, watching how you text, seeing if your actions match your words and trust me, she’s catching every detail.
Meanwhile, you’re thinking she’s weighing her options. Wrong. She already knows if you’re boyfriend material, fun for now, or a red flag she’s keeping at arm’s length. “We’re just talking” is her polite way of saying: I haven’t decided how long you’re staying, but I already know the role you’re playing.
And if you think you can flip the script during this stage, tread carefully. One dry reply, one “wyd” too many, one sign of inconsistency—and she’ll cut the cord without warning. Because for her, “just talking” isn’t a test run for you. It’s a test run for her peace.
Tessa’s Final Thought:
When she says “we’re just talking,” she’s not undecided, she’s already drafted the ending.
Disclaimer:
This series is for entertainment and perspective. The talking stage is fragile so don’t mistake her attention for uncertainty.
Tessa Renee
