Do Compliment Her Effort, Don’t Compare Her to Other Women

Compliments are currency in relationships. When you notice her effort, her outfit, her work ethic,  or her laugh, it builds connection. But nothing ruins a compliment faster than dragging another woman into it.

“Wow, you’re so much prettier than my ex.” 🚩
“You’re not like other girls.” 🚩
“She never did this for me.” 🚩

Comparisons don’t flatter, they wound. They reduce her uniqueness to a competition she never signed up for. Complimenting her effort should be about her, not about proving she outshines someone else.

If you want to win her over, make her feel seen in her own lane, not like she’s running against ghosts.

Tessa’s Final Thought:
Celebrate her for who she is, not for how she measures up to someone else.

Disclaimer:
This series is for entertainment and empowerment. Compliments should uplift, not compare. Focus on the woman in front of you.