Tessa ReneeAh yes, the oldest excuse in the book: “Sorry, I’ve just been busy.” Boys, hear me out, no one is too busy to send a 5-second text. NASA astronauts manage to tweet from space. CEOs post selfies mid-meeting. If he’s not texting, it’s not busyness, it’s priorities.
But delulu logic? It refuses to accept that. He’s not ignoring me, he’s definitely trapped in a 12-hour Zoom call. He’s not ghosting—his phone probably died and then got eaten by a bear. He’s not disinterested, he’s just waiting to craft the perfect reply (that somehow takes three days).
Deep down, I know “busy” is code for “you’re not at the top of my list.” But until I’m ready to face it, I’ll keep pretending his silence is productivity, not avoidance.
Tessa’s Final Thought:
“Busy” is just PR spin for “not interested” and I deserve the truth.
Disclaimer:
This series is for entertainment and perspective. Don’t let “busy” become an excuse, actions always reveal priorities.
Tessa Renee
