Say Please and I’ll Think About It

There’s a particular kind of man who thinks access to a woman like her is automatic, like she’s obligated to respond, obligated to be available, obligated to entertain him simply because he showed up with a pulse and a half-decent “hey.”

Soft Dom Tess would like to gently (yet firmly) correct that delusion.

Access to her is earned.
Energy from her is a privilege.
Attention from her is not free.

If you want something from her, you’re going to have to do more than assume she’ll give it. You’re going to have to ask. With intention. With clarity. With actual effort.

Cuz Here’s the fun twist:

She likes confidence, but she respects a man who knows how to ask properly.
And in her world, asking properly starts with one simple word:

Please.

Say please and she might soften.
Say please and she might give you her time.
Say please and she might entertain that request you thought you weren’t brave enough to voice.
Say please and she might let you closer than you’ve ever been.

But don’t get it twisted babe cause “please” isn’t a magic password.
It’s a mindset.
It shows respect, intention, and awareness.
It shows that you understand she is choosing you, not settling for you.
It shows you’re willing to meet her with the same energy she brings to the connection.

Because she notices everything:
The tone.
The effort.
The entitlement (or lack thereof).
The way you speak to her when you want something.
The way you speak to her when you’re not getting what you want.

Soft Dom Tess isn’t here to play games (okay maybe she is) but shes also here to set standards.

You don’t get to be demanding with inconsistent effort.
You don’t get to expect more than you give.
You don’t get to act like she owes you anything just because you’re interested.

If you want her attention? Show respect.
If you want her energy? Bring intention.
If you want her time? Ask her, don’t assume.

She’s not impressed by pressure.
She’s not moved by entitlement.
She’s not falling for men who bark orders like they’re leading something they can’t maintain.

But a man who asks with confidence, courtesy, and control?
A man who knows how to blend assertiveness with respect?
A man who knows how to say “please” without losing his dominance?
Yeah that gets her attention.

“Say please and I’ll think about it” isn’t arrogance lover it’s a reminder:
She chooses who gets access.
She chooses who gets her softness.
She chooses who gets her time, her attention, and her energy.

And trust me if she thinks about it and says yes?
That yes is worth more than anything you could have tried to take.

Final Thought: Parting Command

If you want her time, ask for it like a man who understands her worth. Effort earns access, not entitlement. Say please and maybe she’ll say yes.

Disclaimer: Good intentions required. Bad behavior corrected.