Tessa ReneeBoys, let’s make this crystal clear: “Do whatever you want” is not freedom, it’s a warning shot. When she says it, she’s not granting permission. She’s handing you a shovel and daring you to dig your own grave.
This phrase lives in the Hall of Fame of coded language. On the surface, it sounds chill. Underneath? It’s layered with disappointment, frustration, and one last chance for you to prove you know how to read the room. She’s basically saying: I’ve already told you what matters to me, and now I’m watching to see if you care enough to choose me without being told again.
If you take the bait and actually “do whatever you want,” you’ve just confirmed her worst suspicion: that her feelings don’t register in your decision-making. And trust me, once she clocks that, the conversation isn’t just over, it’s the relationship that’s hanging by a thread.
The right move? Pause. Replay the last five minutes of the conversation in your head. Ask yourself: What is she really asking for here? Because nine times out of ten, she’s not looking for control, she’s looking for reassurance. Show her that you’re listening, that you value her input, and that “whatever you want” means what she wants matters too.
Tessa’s Final Thought:
If you hear “do whatever you want,” don’t. That’s your cue to step up, not check out.
Disclaimer:
This series is for entertainment and perspective. Listen carefully, her words may be short, but the meaning runs deep.
Tessa Renee
