She Doesn’t Want Closure, She Wants You to Get Lost

Boys, let’s get one thing straight: when she says she wants “closure,” she doesn’t mean she wants to meet up, hear your excuses, or rehash the same arguments that already killed the vibe. What she really wants is simple, she wants distance. Space. Silence. She doesn’t want closure, she wants out.

Closure is often just a polite word for stop contacting me. She doesn’t need you to validate her feelings. She doesn’t need you to explain why you did what you did. She doesn’t need you to rewrite history with a nicer ending. If she wanted your version of events, she would’ve asked before she hit her breaking point.

The truth? Women create their own closure. The second she decides she deserves better, that is the closure. What she’s hoping is that you’ll respect her decision enough not to beg, bargain, or creep back into her inbox under the disguise of “just checking in.”

And here’s the part you need to swallow: chasing her after the end doesn’t heal her, it just proves she made the right decision to leave. Sometimes the only mature move you’ve got left is to bow out gracefully and let her write the final chapter without you in it.

Tessa’s Final Thought:
Closure isn’t something you give her, it’s the boundary she already built without you.

Disclaimer:
This series is for entertainment and perspective. When it’s over, respect the exit and don’t force yourself into a sequel that isn’t being written.