Tessa ReneeBoys love to throw the word “overthinking” around, as if women are sitting in the corner creating problems out of thin air. Let me explain: she’s not overthinking, she’s observing. And if she’s pointing things out, it’s not because she’s dramatic, it’s because you’ve given her reasons.
But here’s the part you don’t want to hear: the day she stops bringing things up, stops asking questions, stops reacting? That’s not peace. That’s the death of her interest. Silence isn’t confusion, it’s conclusion. She’s not overthinking anymore because she’s already checked out.
When she cared, she noticed the little things. When she cared, she asked where this was going. When she cared, she wanted clarity. But now? Now she’s saving her breath because she’s realized it’s wasted on you.
The worst mistake you can make is mistaking her quiet for calm. By the time she’s “chill” and “unbothered,” she’s already rehearsing her exit. And trust me, once she’s emotionally over you, the relationship is just waiting for the credits to roll.
Tessa’s Final Thought:
If she’s stopped overthinking, it’s because she’s already stopped thinking about you.
Disclaimer:
This series is for entertainment and perspective. Don’t confuse silence with security because sometimes it means the story’s already over.
Tessa Renee
