Tessa ReneeEveryone’s busy but when she’s into you, she makes time. So if she suddenly becomes “so busy,” here’s the truth you don’t want to face: it’s not her schedule that changed, it’s her interest.
In the beginning, she texted back fast, carved out time for calls, maybe even squeezed you in between work, school, or family. Why? Because she wanted to. Attraction rearranges priorities. Energy follows interest. Effort makes space.
But when she starts saying she’s too busy, consistently, that’s not scheduling, that’s signaling. It means she no longer sees you as worth the effort. She’s putting her time into things (and maybe people) that actually add value to her story. And that’s not an excuse, it’s clarity.
The biggest mistake you can make is trying to argue with her calendar. If she wanted to, she would. Instead of begging for scraps of time, take the message she’s already giving you: she’s checked out. And once a woman replaces you with her peace, her passions, or someone else who listens better, there’s no rescheduling that.
Tessa’s Final Thought:
Busy is real. But “too busy for you”? That’s a breakup without saying the words.
Disclaimer:
This series is for entertainment and perspective. Don’t chase the unavailable and pay attention to effort, not excuses.
Tessa Renee
