Do Bring Flowers, Don’t Bring Up Your Ex

Flowers are timeless. They say, I thought about you. They’re simple, sweet, and a gesture that still makes hearts melt. But you know what kills the vibe faster than wilted petals? Talking about your ex.

Comparisons, complaints, or endless stories about “how crazy she was” don’t make you look like a survivor, they make you look stuck. Women want to feel chosen in the present, not like they’re competing with ghosts from your past. Bringing up your ex on a date is like spilling water on the bouquet you just gave because it ruins the moment.

Bring flowers, bring attention, bring good energy. But leave the ex talk at home with the baggage claim.

Tessa’s Final Thought:
Fresh flowers say you’re thoughtful. Old stories say you’re not over it. Choose wisely.

Disclaimer:
This series is for entertainment and empowerment. Focus on the present, no one blooms when you’re stuck in the past.

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