Do Plan the Date, Don’t Ask “So, What Do You Wanna Do?”

Few things kill excitement faster than a man who can’t make a plan. “So, what do you wanna do?” isn’t charming, it’s lazy. Women aren’t looking to be your cruise director. We want to feel like you put in thought, effort, and intention.

Planning the date doesn’t mean you have to book a yacht. It means you listened when she said she loves sushi and picked a restaurant accordingly. It means you chose an activity that sparks conversation, not awkward silence. It means you showed initiative instead of making her carry the mental load.

Here’s the reality: effort is sexy. Initiative is sexy. Responsibility is sexy. If you can’t plan one date, how can she trust you to plan a life?

Tessa’s Final Thought:
A man with a plan wins. A man without one? Already lost.

Disclaimer:
This series is for entertainment and empowerment. Dates don’t need to be extravagant, just intentional.