Tessa ReneeScrolling too far back on someone’s feed is already suspicious, but “accidentally” liking a picture from 2016? That’s not interest, that’s digital trespassing. It doesn’t come off as sweet or curious. It comes off as creepy, careless, or both.
Real interest doesn’t hide behind awkward slip-ups on old selfies. It shows up in the present: engaging with her current life, asking about her goals, showing excitement for what she’s doing now. A man who pays attention to today is infinitely more attractive than one lost in her archives.
The truth is, women don’t want accidental attention, they want intentional attention. Stop lurking, stop playing it off like a “mistake,” and start showing her you’re tuned in to who she is right now.
Tessa’s Final Thought:
The past is old news. Interest lives in the present, pay attention where it matters.
Disclaimer:
This series is for entertainment and empowerment. Engagement should be genuine, not clumsy. Respect her timeline and her time.
Tessa Renee
