Why Over-Pursuing Always Backfires

When you chase too hard, it stops looking like interest and starts looking like obsession. Every “just checking in” text, every random good morning meme, every unsolicited update about your day, it doesn’t pull me closer, it pushes me away.

Here’s the irony: the harder you push, the faster I retreat. Attraction isn’t built on pressure; it’s built on balance. And if you don’t know when to pull back, you’ll never give me the chance to lean in.

Final Word: Pursue too much, and you’ll lose the chase before it even starts.

Disclaimer: Don’t mistake this for a dating manual. It’s a warning label written in sarcasm.