Tessa ReneeThe formula is simple: no access, no drama, no problem. Because most chaos in life doesn’t happen randomly, it walks in through unlocked doors. And the block button? That’s me locking mine.
I used to think drama just “followed me.” That maybe I was attracting it, or that life was just messy. But the truth was simpler: I was letting the wrong people stay too close. People who thrived on conflict, who fed off attention, who mistook my patience for permission. And the second I revoked their access, the drama evaporated.
Blocking isn’t about punishment. It’s prevention. It’s me saying, “I don’t need to fight fires if I stop inviting arsonists.” Without access, there’s no stage for their chaos. Without contact, there’s no fuel for their games. Without visibility, there’s no audience for their performance.
No access. No drama. No problem. That’s not just a saying, it’s the blueprint for peace.
Final Thought: My peace comes from locked doors, not open chaos.
Disclaimer: This is empowerment writing, not therapy. Boundaries are personal; build the ones you need.
Tessa Renee
