Why Mystery Is Your Best Accessory
Tessa Renee
Anyone can flirt by being loud. Mystery flirts by being unforgettable. It’s the secret you don’t share, the…
Sir, Please, Don’t “Accidentally” Like Her 2017 Photos
Nothing screams “creepy” like a deep scroll gone wrong. Sir, please, if you’re going to lurk, at least…
I’m Not Gaslighting, I’m Just Really Good at Debating
Gaslighting? Please. That’s amateur work. I don’t rewrite reality, I just argue until you’re too tired to keep…
Why Bathroom Mirror Pics Are the Most Intimidating Weapon
Forget soft lighting and curated backdrops. The bathroom mirror selfie is raw, harsh, and unforgiving and that’s exactly…
Apologies That Don’t Come With Conditions
Conditional apologies are poison. “I’m sorry if you felt that way.” “I’m sorry, but you started it.” “I’m…
Dear Tessa: He Says He’s “Just Bad at Texting”
Crisis:Dear Tessa, the guy I’m seeing takes forever to reply and sometimes disappears mid-conversation. When I called him…
The Cautionary Tale of Ignored Red Flags
Every story has a moral, and this one is the most important: ignored red flags always come back…
Don’t “Accidentally” Like Pics From 2016, Do Show Real Interest
Scrolling too far back on someone’s feed is already suspicious, but “accidentally” liking a picture from 2016? That’s…
Dating the Human Version of a Mechanical Bull
At first, it feels thrilling, he’s fun, unpredictable, a little wild. But soon, you realize dating him is…
Dear Men, “I’m Busy” Isn’t an Excuse, It’s a Red Flag
Dear men, let’s talk about everyone’s favorite cop-out: “I’m busy.” On the surface, it sounds reasonable. Life is…
