Telling You I’m Trouble Before You Find Out the Hard Way
Tessa Renee
Transparency is my love language but I make it toxic. I’ll tell you up front: I’m messy, dramatic,…
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Blessed but Messy
15 posts
Self-help, but unhinged. Healing with a side of thirst traps, boundary issues, and selective growth.
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When to Drop the Thirst Trap for Peak Jealousy
Timing is everything. Post too soon, and it looks desperate. Post too late, and they’ve already moved on.…
My Self-Awareness Is Loading, Please Wait
Self-awareness isn’t a switch, it’s a slow download. Some days, you’re enlightened, journaling like a guru, catching your…
Posting Like You’re Already Dating Someone Better
One of the oldest thirst trap tricks in the book? Acting like you’ve already upgraded. A strategically angled…
Learning to Apologize Without Adding “But”
The most powerful word in redemption is sorry. But here’s the catch: a real apology doesn’t come with…
Half Healing, Half Causing Problems
I’m in therapy, I journal, I meditate. I also send screenshots to my best friend with the caption…
I’m Self-Aware Enough to Know I’m Playing Games
Look, I’m not naïve. I know when I’m being difficult. I know when I’m sending mixed signals. I…
Weaponizing Your Glow-Up for Maximum Emotional Damage
A glow-up is already powerful. But when you weaponize it? That’s when it becomes unforgettable. The key is…
Still Petty, But With a Purpose
Petty isn’t always toxic, sometimes it’s therapeutic. The key is intention. Posting a glow-up selfie after he ghosted?…
Petty? Absolutely. Honest About It? Always.
I don’t hide my pettiness, I wear it like jewelry. If you cross me, expect a subtweet. If…
