I Got Tired, Not Confident
TessaRenee
I didn’t suddenly become confident. I got tired. Tired of explaining myself. Tired of second-guessing my reactions. Tired…
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For Her
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For Her is written for the woman who did the work and stopped explaining the results. This space explores healing with honesty, softness with standards, and the quiet power that comes from knowing better and choosing differently. Nothing here is rushed or performative, just intentional reflections for women who’ve grown, set boundaries, and no longer make themselves accessible to what doesn’t deserve them.
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I’m Soft and I Say No
I’m soft and I say no without raising my voice or hardening my heart. My softness doesn’t disappear…
I Chose This Life
I chose this life, even if not every part of it felt like a conscious decision at the…
I Didn’t Shut Down
I didn’t shut down when things felt uncomfortable, even though that used to be my instinct. I noticed…
I Let Distance Happen
I let distance happen when I realized I was the only one trying to close the gap. Not…
I Was Right First
I was right first, and that used to feel like a curse. Not because being right was the…
Better, Not Finished
I’m better, not finished. I’ve grown. I’ve learned. I’ve changed how I respond to things that once overwhelmed…
Confidence Wasn’t a Gift
Confidence wasn’t a gift. No one handed it to me gently or spoke it into existence at the…
Softness Still Needs Boundaries
Softness still needs boundaries, or it slowly becomes something else. Without structure, softness stretches too far. It absorbs…
Responsibility Is Part of It
Responsibility is part of it, whether you ask for it or not. It shows up quietly, without ceremony,…